“Who
else wants to learn the secrets to actually helping those you
care about (or your clients), instead of hurting them by
accident?
You
mean well. But, are you helping--or are you really hurting?
How do you know? Learn what many people need to learn yet have
never discovered.... So you can truly help those you care
about.”
What
if you had a way to tell whether you are helping your loved one, or
hurting them? Give us just five minutes
of your time here, and we'll point you to a new resource where you
can discover exactly that...
Want to
understand the difference between "Caretaking" and
being compassionate or loving? Know when you have crossed the
line from helpful to harmful?
I will share with you
what I learned the hard way... What "Caretaking"
really means... How you can begin to identify when you are Caretaking...
And what you can do instead so you REALLY ARE helping
people! I have spend the past 6 years discovering
the difference for myself... and now I am sharing that secret with
you!
- Pam Ragland, Aiming Higher
Caretaking/Co-Dependency/Energy Drains...
"Almost immediately after my Thought ShiftTM
I had a huge Caretaking ah-hah
moment. Several actually. I am
noticing those people I am Caretaking and who are taking my energy as soon as I talk to them. I am just
aware of it now. Which is excellent, because I can start to deal with
those situations where my energy is being drained immediately. I feel
better and I'm actually helping more."
~ Zurino Ostroman, Kelowna, BC, Canada
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What if I told you
your "helping" may actually be hurting?
This was a hard lesson for me the day I realized it, for sure.
After all, I care about people. I love to help. What on
earth do you mean that my help may not actually be helping?
Argh, that was soooo hard to hear...
Because I
have learned this lesson the hard way -- in fact I am a single mom
with two kids because of my Caretaking -- I can tell you
this...
With
my "End Family Addictions" formula learn how...
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Many
people who mean well and are trying to help actually hurt the
ones they love most in the end...
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Or,
just as unfortunate, you end up hurting yourself
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And
worse, because you mean well, you actually believe you are
helping
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You
are unclear about when you are crossing the line from helping to
hurting
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You
don't realize why your help does not actually help
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Which
makes it really hard to set "boundaries" with those
you care about
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Especially
those you care about the most...
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Worse,
you don't see the harmful impact this has to you, them, or both
... or how to change
this destructive dynamic
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And
the kicker of them all... To realize if you are Caretaking, you
are actually being selfish... and why that is
These discoveries are the number one reason you
may THINK you are helping, but in reality you are not. It can
be a hard message to hear when you believe you are helping, that
instead you are making it worse. Trust me, I
know...
Whether
you are a coach, therapist, family member of an addict, or just
someone who is always looking to help... This information can mean
the difference between your ability to truly help the one you love,
and instead getting in their way by accident. Or, getting in
your own way--and even
possibly making yourself sick.
In
fact, Caretaking is such a problem it's nearly an epidemic. We
simply don't clearly understand when to let people take responsibility
for themselves... or when it's hurting you.
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buy this program now? Click Here...
What would it mean to you to
feel you are very clear about whether you are really helping or not,
every time? To see your loved one (or client) actually benefit
from this change in YOU? To
help people without feeling drained or getting so tired?
To feel at peace knowing you have done all you can to help, and you
can let it go?
Well, now you CAN...
Learn
whether you are Caretaking... or not... and what to do about it!!
New Boundaries...
"I
have been Caretaking my teenager daughter, who is an addict, for so long I
didn't realize my own behavior. It drained me and it never really
helped her. Today, I set appropriate boundaries, and I am much more
clear about when I'm really helping. In the end, it has actually
helped her more."
~ Name
withheld for privacy, CA,
USA
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No
one else is really talking about Caretaking like this... And,
the reason is, most people are still struggling themselves to
figure this out. Sure, people talk about things like
co-dependency. But, what does that mean? It is more
than not buying the addict in your life drugs for
example. It is more than "setting
boundaries" with your clients or friends. Much
more...
Do
you have some of these "signs of a caretaker"??:
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People
come to you again and again for help...yet you hear the same
story over and over (you may even think "We already
talked about that!")
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People
expect you to be available for them at their whim (and may even
get mad when you aren't)
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You
dread hearing from one or more people because of how you feel
afterwards... drained
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You
feel compelled to help, do work for free, pick up the check, or feel
sorry for people financially
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You wonder if you are really helping...
people may even GET MAD AT YOU for trying to help them!
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You
tolerate way too much from people -- excuses, blaming, lack of
responsibility
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You
may even be totally burned out on helping... or be close to
burnout
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You
say "yes" way too much ... or you can't say
"no"
Does
any of this sound like you? If so...
GIVE
ME JUST A FEW HOURS TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE!
This unique program includes:
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Nearly
4 hours of MP3 audio discussing Caretaking: What it is,
how to identify it, and how to know when
it is draining you, in great detail
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Audio
that includes real-life questions and answers about
specific Caretaking situations
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An
Action Guide (PDF) with homework, so you can identify your own
Caretaking tendencies--and begin taking immediate actions to
correct them
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All
delivered digitally, so it is available to you immediately --
even if it's 2am!
Do you KNOW when your
actions are crossing the line from helping into
Caretaking? Do you even know what Caretaking is?
Have you admitted to yourself you may need to change something
about yourself, to help the ones you love and care about?
Or, are you just not sure and need to find out? This
program answers all these questions!
So, what difference can all this make to your life?
Benefits of
the Have Anything™ Caretaking
Program:
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Identify
your own negative behaviors that may be hurting the ones
you love
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Be
able to truly help, because you have STOPPED CARETAKING
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Gain
more energy, as you quit giving it to others by accident
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Feel
satisfaction because you can finally recognize when you are
helping... or not
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Watch
your loved ones step up to actually take more responsibility
and improve
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Be
able to help more people if you want to, because you aren't so drained by
helping a few
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If
your Caretaking is financial, be left with or even
make more money, as you learn what is appropriate for
financial boundaries
...and just plain old have
a sense of peace
because you are finally clear about what actions you
should take, whether it's for an addicted loved one, a client,
or a friend.
WOW. Is this all really possible? YES!
Ready to
buy this program now? Click Here...
Why did I develop this program?
I grew up Caretaking.
I was
molested as a child, and felt frustrated with a court system
that would not even prosecute the man. But, by telling, I had
"saved" 20 other children he was also molesting.
At 4, this was my first known
act of real service to people--and also when I got the
idea "Caretaking" others was part of my
"job"...
I
grew up with addictions all around me, and continued my
Caretaking pattern. My mother, step
fathers, grandfather, and later my younger sister who was addicted to Meth for 12
years were all addicts.
To this day my mother is still an addict, having been
arrested recently for selling drugs. It used to be she
only called me when she needed money (until I set different
boundaries for our relationship.) And, I had
"caretakers" all around me, and learned to be one
myself for many years. My first husband was
emotionally and physically abusive, and I later had to
acknowledge I was Caretaking him.
My
next husband left me while I was out of town for business,
cleaning out the house of all our belongings and mine too,
and also cleaning out all my bank accounts. He left me completely broke and wondering how
I would pay my house
payment (he even got my 3 week vacation payout check!), while he hid
over $100,000 of money that belonged to me.
Later--much later--I realized
I had been "financially" Caretaking him.
Then,
I became a workaholic, which eventually led to cancer,
and later on pneumonia that would not respond to
antibiotics. As an executive in a worldwide consulting company,
I oversaw large scale company transformations as an organizational
turnaround specialist. Upon reflection, I had to admit I
was doing this work because I was Caretaking the employees in
the large corporations I consulted to, trying to
"protect them" from their "horrible"
managers!!
Then,
six years ago I discovered I was pregnant. I had already
split up with the father because he was (once again)
abusive. When I met him, I had asked "I wonder
why I'm in his life?" BINGO...
Caretaking!! Because I had just been assaulted by
him then learned I was pregnant, my doctor sent me to a
Therapist. While
the Therapist was not particularly useful, she said one thing
on the first visit: "Pam, you are kind of a
Caretaker."
Well...
I fought that idea for a while. Eventually, I
quit going to her. But, gradually I
began to see the real truth of it. And, I saw how it had
colored the landscape of my entire life. I refused to go
back to him just because I was pregnant. Finally, after
needing to go through a second pregnancy alone, and becoming a
single mom before my child was even born, it was time for a
change!
But
wait... it is not always easy to stop Caretaking!!! It's
a learning process. Once my daughter was born, I heard
"I have changed..." from her dad. Oh, the
words that melt a Caretaker's heart... I let him
back. And, walaaaa, two months later I realized he had
NOT changed. But, by then I was pregnant...again.
Again, another pregnancy alone. That was the last
straw!! I have never let him
back...
Today,
my life is one many would dream of. I own my own business. The single mom of 2 small kids,
I get to spend time with them like many stay-at-home moms. I
send them to private school, paying for it all myself.
I choose my own flexible schedule, working just part-time
with a full-time income. I have a horse and ride him
regularly. I am the first in my family to surpass
earning 6 figures. I am living life on my own
terms. My life is full of passion, potential, and I am totally living on purpose.
I even know
clearly what my purpose is! And, gratefully, I now
get to use all that traumatic life experience to help
people overcome their own
challenges.
Ready to
buy this program now? Click Here...
Pam's
Background...
Pam
is a master at helping people who are ready to grow transform quickly and effortlessly. For 24+ years, Pam has helped people change in various settings. She led multiple quality
departments in corporations. As an executive in a worldwide consulting company,
Pam oversaw large scale company transformations as an organizational
turnaround specialist. Her intention is and always has been to help people change as quickly and effortlessly as possible.
No matter the business challenge, Pam learned whether or not a change “sticks” always comes down to people & their individual roadblocks.
In 2000, after her
second major illness in four years due to being a workaholic,
and a husband who had just left her, Pam got a clue that her
lifestyle was no longer working. She started her own coaching business called
Aiming Higher. Pam's training comes from world leaders. She helped the highly regarded Master Coach Jennifer White create her exclusive and renowned
"Work Less, Make More" and corporate coaching
programs. Pam also had the fortune of being mentored by Thomas Leonard (both of whom have since passed away). Later, she was trained by Tom Stone in both the Wavemaker™, and as one of the first
Core Dynamics Teachers.
Still,
it felt like "pulling teeth" to help people change
issue by issue. So, Pam kept looking for a better way to really help her clients transform more quickly & effortlessly.
She surpassed traditional coaching. In November, 2004, she was gifted with introducing the Thought Shifting™ & Quantum Thought Shifting™ methods to the planet, which offer a brand new & radically transformational form of removing past limitations at the highest
levels, and connecting people back to their true power. Pam
likes to say we all came into this world as a
Masterpiece, and little by little we get all covered
up. Pam is like the "paint remover", removing
the heavy layers so our true glory can be
revealed.
As a result, she has used this new method to help her clients
transform faster than anything
else available on the planet today. Pam now uses Quantum Thought
Shifting™ in a program called “Have Anything™”, to take people to new heights.
Today, Pam Ragland is an internationally known Thought Shift™ expert, speaker, author, & teacher.
Ready to
buy this program now? Click Here...
How Does the
Have AnythingTM
Caretaking Program Work?
This is a
self-study informational program. Two audios, recorded live,
over 4 hours in total, discuss Caretaking and other things that
drain your energy.
Then, you will use the
mini-workbook to learn more, and discover more about
yourself.
If you're like most
people, you will listen to the audio again and again, as you
discover more about your own reactions, Caretaking, and what you can
do to change.
There is nothing else like
this program! It brings clarity to the answer "What
is Caretaking and how do I know if I am doing it?" It also
helps you change your own behavior....
7 things you should know:
1. The definition of
"Caretaking"
2. How Caretaking harms others
3. How Caretaking harms you
4. Why Caretaking limits your financial success, ESPECIALLY if you help
people for a profession
5. Why Caretaking hurts the people you love & Caretake
6. How to begin changing this destructive pattern once and for
all
7. How to increase your energy as a result of learning all this...
If you're content to
keep harming yourself and others, or you insist on holding on to
your Caretaking lifestyle, this program is not for you. But,
if you are ready to REALLY help those you care about...
Ready to
buy this program now? Click Here...
Who is this for?
Anyone who cares about people and who TRULY wants to help them.
You may have an addicted loved one. You may be a
Coach, Consultant, Therapist, or Doctor who would benefit from gaining greater insight into helping your clients, &
gain a greater ability to do so objectively. You
may just be a "good friend" and wonder why on earth you
are soooo tired all the time. If
you deal with people, you may be Caretaking in one form or another.
So, how much is it?
How much would you expect to pay for a program that does so much? How
can you put a price on really helping people be free in
their own lives? How much money are you giving up
because of your Caretaking? Not to mention the cost to your life of
losing your energy to others, worry over whether or not
you are making the right choice for your loved ones and
clients, and in the end helping those you care about
even more.
I
charge more than $1,000 per hour to work privately with
clients. You might expect to pay $500 or more for such a remarkable
program if you could even find it anywhere else.
But, I want this program to be accessible to everyone. So, I have kept the price as reasonable as possible, while still reflecting the value you are getting.
To
be sure as many people will benefit from this incredibly
transformational program as possible, I have kept the price at just
$97
$47
for the entire package.
Raise the bar. Expect more from yourself, and you will get more in return!
Click
here to buy now...Hurry before the price goes back up!
To your
success!!
"Dear Pam, I definitely noticed a shift. I feel more focused, and freer to do what I came here to do. Love to you, Jack" Jack Canfield, Chicken Soup For the Soul series co-author,
Teacher "The Secret"
"I have lost 14 pounds in the past month!"
DL CA, USA
"Pam Ragland is the master of focused and fast transformation."
Todd Canedy, CA, USA
"My fears are just like a thing of the past. It's like I never had them. Amazing!"
MK, CA, USA
"Not only am I effortlessly attracting whatever I choose--but I have such peace all the time." PR, CA, USA |
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